Texts: 1 John 4:7-8; Luke 10:25-37
Today our uncommon lectionary intersects with the Revised Common Lectionary. When asked
"What's your story?" or "What scripture informs your faith?" Love was a common theme.
"The one that says 'God is Love'" was one unsigned submission.
"How to truly love our neighbors as ourselves" was another. And from Marcia Ferris, this request came with a song: "The greatest love of all."
I believe that children are the future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride....
...The greatest love of all is happening to me...
...Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.
I remember singing along with Whitney, whenever that song came on the radio. All the residents of Stanger Hall (I was in college at the time) would sing along. Sometimes I worried that it was a bit sacrilegious, to sing that "the greatest love of all" was love of self (rather than the love of God). But, for many people that is indeed where it needs to begin: with an understanding of how God sees each and every one of us: as a beloved child, loved just for being.
Unfortunately, many children are brought up knowing that they are unloved and believing that it is because they are unlovable. My parents were two cases in point: they each lost a parent at an early age, and so they were brought up, during the Great Depression, by people who never let them forget what an imposition they were. In my father's case it was a stepfather, in my mother's case it was foster parents. Fortunately, they also had people in their lives who did love them, and they were able to heal enough to be good parents to my siblings and me.
Ideally, every child should all be nurtured from the cradle, to know that he or she is a beloved child of God. Every child should know someone whose love is unconditional, someone who models God's love to him or her. Ideally, that love should be strong enough to stand up to the challenges of contradictory messages which will besiege the child as he or she grows. The messages that say she is unattractive, he is unworthy, they are incomplete without something or other, which they can buy for the low, low price of....
Ideally, but so many of us, we have to learn to love ourselves, so that we can know what it is to love our neighbors as ourselves. I believe worship is, to some extent, group cognitive therapy. Cognitive therapy is the practice of learning new thought patterns, reinforcing healthy messages and blocking unhealthy messages. When we address God in prayer, as just and merciful, we say these things not to "butter God up" to get on God's good side. God knows who God is. We say these things to remind ourselves who God is, lest we forget, lest we forget. Praying in this way is like holding up a mirror, to see ourselves as God sees us. Beloved. Welcome. Forgiven, and Blessed.
But we can't get too stuck on ourselves. We also are reminded that we are not God's only children. We have brothers and sisters in the neighborhood who are equally loved, welcome, forgiven and blessed. Who are these brothers and sisters? Wherever you go, whoever you see, your looking at them.
"Seeking to justify himself," the scripture says, "seeking to justify himself," the lawyer asked, "So, who is my neighbor?" What kind of an answer was he fishing for? I suppose one that would allow him to go on living and loving his own family and friends, while ignoring the suffering of strangers, and being an accomplice after the fact, which is one way to describe a person whose indifference compounds suffering-- an accomplice after the fact.
How do we truly love our neighbors as we love ourselves? This is an open question. It is a question we should carry into our lives every day. We should never presume to have any answer beyond that which lies hidden in plain sight, in the parable. That is the only solution to the puzzle, the only answer that Jesus offers.
Which of these, do you think, was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?
Go and do likewise.
