Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Who Are You?


17 February 2013, First Sunday in Lent
Deuteronomy 26:1-11; Luke 4:1-13
            Every year, when the people brought the first fruits of the early harvest to the altar of the Lord, as Moses instructed, they were to recite their story. Generation after generation, they were to tell the story as if it happened to them personally,
            "A wandering Aramean was my father; he went down into Egypt and lived there as an alien, few in number, and there he became a great nation, mighty and populous. When the Egyptians treated us harshly and afflicted us, by imposing hard labor on us, we cried to the LORD, the God of our ancestors; the LORD heard our voice and saw our affliction, our toil, and our oppression. The LORD brought us out of Egypt with a mighty hand and an outstretched arm, with a terrifying display of power, and with signs and wonders; and he brought us into this place and gave us this land, a land flowing with milk and honey. So now I bring the first of the fruit of the ground that you, O LORD, have given me."
            The pilgrimage to the temple, the presentation of the gifts, and the recitation of the story were all identity-forming experiences. Israel was shaped and united by a common story, a story of undeserved suffering and unearned salvation. As long as they remembered their story, and behaved as a people who were only recently rescued, they would be all right. Moses cautioned them about the temptations of a soft life: When you have entered the land of milk and honey, and you have built your houses and eaten the produce of the land… “Do not say to yourself, ‘My power and the might of my own hand have gained me this wealth.’” (Deut. 8:17) According to Moses, the virtuous life is rooted in an understanding that we belong to God. It is God who made us who we are today.
            And every year, on the first Sunday of the season of Lent, we tell each other the story of Jesus in the wilderness. When we tell the story from Mark's gospel we get only a brief reference to the temptation—he was in the wilderness, with the wild beasts, tempted by Satan, angels ministered to him. But Matthew’s and Luke’s versions tell of three specific temptations, each one challenging Jesus identity.
            “If you are the son of God…”
            Well, that is probably what Jesus was trying to figure out. What does it mean to be the son of God? He had just been baptized by John in the Jordan river, he had felt the presence, heard the voice, “You are my son, my beloved, with you I am well pleased.” And immediately the spirit drove him into the wilderness to think about that. Does it mean privilege? Does it mean wealth? Does it mean power over life and death?
            If you are the child of God… what does it mean?
             For better or worse, our identity is shaped by the stories we have been told. We are who we are because of the stories we have been told. We are the stories we remember, we are the stories that we tell ourselves. We are shaped by the family stories, the stories of our people. We are shaped by our nation’s stories, by our history. We are shaped by our memories of how people treated us, which become the story lines of our dreams. The past and the present create the story of our future, our hopes and dreams and aspirations.
            They are not all good stories. Every family has its heroes and scoundrels. Some stories give us something good to aim for, other stories are cautionary tales. If you are lucky, you were told a story of how you came into this life, and into your family—a story of how you were loved and cherished from the start, a story which confirms our God-given identity.
But perhaps you were told a different kind of story. Perhaps instead of building you up, the stories that you were told tore you down. Like my friend whose mother told her that she was a burden, that she was unwanted, that she was a mistake. Those stories are difficult to overcome. But we can claim for ourselves a new story, and in claiming a new story we claim a new identity. Moses teaches us that it is our God-given identity, not our self-made identity, and not the identity that others would impose upon us that matters.
The story of Jesus in the wilderness teaches us that when we are tempted, it is our stories that can save us. If we can remember who and whose we are, then we can resist the claims that others make on us. If we can remember who we are, then we can resist the alluring temptations about what we have earned and what we deserve, and be content with what God has granted.
The power of story was illustrated on the front page of Thursday’s Free Press, about the “controversial social studies standards.” For generations, we have all been told the same stories about America. They were the same stories that our parents learned. Many of us grew up and learned that those stories were not the whole truth. Having learned to listen to other stories, we ask, “Why do we keep telling stories that are not altogether true?”
Why do we keep telling the story of America’s Revolutionary War as a great and glorious effort on behalf of Liberty, when about half a million people were enslaved before, during and after that Revolution? Why do we keep telling the story of Westward Expansion as if the Great Plains, the mountains and beyond  were completely empty, vacant of human life?
The new social studies standards are an effort to tell everyone’s story. Not just the one story line we learned as children, but everyone’s story. Of course, there are people who are opposed to the change. Change is frightening to people whose personal identities are invested in the story of America as they heard it in school and in church, stories of the land of the free and home of the brave, stories of a nation with leaders so virtuous that it could do no wrong. I have sympathy for these people because they are afraid that their story, and therefore their identity, will be taken away. Take away our stories and who are we? I sympathize, but I do not agree. I hope the experience inspires empathy for people whose stories have been ignored for far too long.
I believe that we will all be enriched by hearing other stories. I believe that sharing our stories may be our country’s salvation. As we share our various perspectives, our various stories, a new story of America, a better story of America, will emerge.
I think it is the same for the congregation. The answer to who we are as a congregation is in our stories, which I am only beginning to learn, a little bit here and there. And I wonder how well you know each other’s stories. As we journey through the season of Lent, I’m going to ask you to share your stories with each other. I believe that as we listen to each other tell our stories, an over-arching theme will develop, and give rise to the story of our congregation.
            As we worship together during this season of Lent, we will be exploring the question of identity. Who are you, Jesus? And who are we because of you? We will be listening for the answer in the stories of scripture and in our stories. Lent is a season of self-examination, so I will encourage you to remember your own stories and examine them.
            May God be with us, and may angels minister to us, as we enter this season together.